Coming Out: The Truth

Coming out is not painful, staying in is painful. Coming out is loose

     

        Satisfied, is what precisely I'm feeling now, that Michael himself has finally decided to make his way out to all those barriers that had hindered him. How he wasn't ashamed and was able to admit to his mother how gay he had been. How he assured her that there wasn't a single reason why he had become one. It's a matter of how being gay has always been in him. This just states that confidence has indeed consumed Michael, beautifully.

        I'm genuinely stunned on the thought of how Michael deals with such revelation, how bold he could be to face such hate and discrimination. How keeping for who he was, is the first choice he made. Even bother to find a place where everyone is accepted. Has it always been this? Hiding? Was this the only room where they could feel safe?

Questions were filled, people desire to know how one's revelation is such a huge deal to a certain gay. Where coming out, takes a lot of time. Where admitting, can be risky. Is this what Michael's been feeling? The feeling of terrified?

        It may take him a while to confess what he's been covering yet everyone can agree on this that he still manages to reveal for who he was that should have been done way back then. How he prefers to do it with a letter, where he stated that things have been good to him. Glad he finally found a place where each has open arms to accept him. A place where people like gays could freely talk, mingle nor just be with someone they desire. Acceptance is what Michael has felt and that's a huge sigh of relief right there.

        Individuals who are part of LGBT do knows the struggle of having a normal life in which what every couple should have. One thing is people who are part of the community, having a gay marriage and adoption. Every single person has its perspective on whether to agree or not to them doing nor having it. How some still consider it a huge deal and even still stand on a man and woman marriage. How gay parents can be more responsible in taking care of a certain child. Where genuine love will be given. I, personally don't blame them for it yet these kind of individuals should wake their self up that the world itself is indeed evolving. That they should take there homophobic self to a place where it should be belong. One big surprise is that gay people intentionally avoid holding hands in public. How a simple expression of love and belonging is abandoned to save hassle and dodge confrontation. This just simply makes there relationship invisible for everyone to see.

        Despising, wouldn't lead you to good nor make you feel prime as you wanted it to be. Want to help? How about you bother to slowly accept for who they wanted to. That isn't that hard, is it? The problem is discrimination, prejudices, and ignorance has taken place. When people are distraught, that’s when they start discriminating and competing between themselves. You may be thinkin, dealing with all of these is just that simple. Yet imagine if you were in their part, can you live with all of that?

        No matter how we turned things, there will always be that kind of individuals out there. Gay, bi, lesbian and trans. How against you are to it, they will still live and will always be.

ESSENCE OF FAMILY DAY IN MY TEENAGE LIFE

      Family Day, where certain families get together, where bonding could be memorable, where the feeling of being loved and secured will be felt. Having interaction with one's family members could lead to a prominent impact on being more intimate with each other. This kind of idea rarely only happens as parents tend to be occupied in their particular business. How communicating nor bonding isn't their first preference. Now, imagine what would the child felt, how one's parents can't even take time to connect not even a single day. It must be pretty tough for the part of every only child out there and how I feel pity for them.

      I, myself, is utterly grateful for how I never encountered such a thing. Though, I admit we don't usually do Sunday bonding as each one of us has certain businesses to make with. But that doesn't stop us right there but rather, we would be together on our dinner nights, to be exact. Have some random talks as we laughed, shared and all that kind of stuff. Funny, how I wholly find this little gathering cute in some way. Grateful is what I'm precisely feeling right now, how my parents nor siblings still bothered to take time to gather and chat.

We look silly

        Having such a gathering to families may strengthen family bonds, develops positive behaviors to children who probably less likely to get involved in risky doings, may also encourage communication, this could lead to the children to be more open and can make your child comfortable in talking nor sharing certain topics to anyone.


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       Last January 26, 2020, Family Day was held on, where parents nor families gathered around. Where you can see and tell the various kinds of feelings in their each faces. How bored yet thrilled they could be. It usually happened that way, family days don't truly give me the feeling of excitement as I know for a fact it's just all about dances, games and such. And the point that my parents aren't interested nor genuinely into it, they don't have to utter a single word as the look in their faces is enough. Speaking of dances, I am indeed glad that our batch did win four times in four years, I can't even believe that we did that. Imagine what we're feeling in those times, the satisfaction in our faces can't be even explained. Per year, we won first place, can you imagine that?

       Everyone can completely agree to this, that the raffle part was the most memorable time of the night as students are moved to know who's name is gonna be called next. How rough they could be as their names aren't mentioned. How mostly grade 10 students were the ones who were waiting for the name to be announced and badly wants the prize to be theirs. This kind of times is what I will genuinely miss the most how we just casually enjoying the night, how for a second right there we just forget the burden that we're holding. That will be the last, and I will surely miss it.