Coming Out: The Truth

Coming out is not painful, staying in is painful. Coming out is loose

     

        Satisfied, is what precisely I'm feeling now, that Michael himself has finally decided to make his way out to all those barriers that had hindered him. How he wasn't ashamed and was able to admit to his mother how gay he had been. How he assured her that there wasn't a single reason why he had become one. It's a matter of how being gay has always been in him. This just states that confidence has indeed consumed Michael, beautifully.

        I'm genuinely stunned on the thought of how Michael deals with such revelation, how bold he could be to face such hate and discrimination. How keeping for who he was, is the first choice he made. Even bother to find a place where everyone is accepted. Has it always been this? Hiding? Was this the only room where they could feel safe?

Questions were filled, people desire to know how one's revelation is such a huge deal to a certain gay. Where coming out, takes a lot of time. Where admitting, can be risky. Is this what Michael's been feeling? The feeling of terrified?

        It may take him a while to confess what he's been covering yet everyone can agree on this that he still manages to reveal for who he was that should have been done way back then. How he prefers to do it with a letter, where he stated that things have been good to him. Glad he finally found a place where each has open arms to accept him. A place where people like gays could freely talk, mingle nor just be with someone they desire. Acceptance is what Michael has felt and that's a huge sigh of relief right there.

        Individuals who are part of LGBT do knows the struggle of having a normal life in which what every couple should have. One thing is people who are part of the community, having a gay marriage and adoption. Every single person has its perspective on whether to agree or not to them doing nor having it. How some still consider it a huge deal and even still stand on a man and woman marriage. How gay parents can be more responsible in taking care of a certain child. Where genuine love will be given. I, personally don't blame them for it yet these kind of individuals should wake their self up that the world itself is indeed evolving. That they should take there homophobic self to a place where it should be belong. One big surprise is that gay people intentionally avoid holding hands in public. How a simple expression of love and belonging is abandoned to save hassle and dodge confrontation. This just simply makes there relationship invisible for everyone to see.

        Despising, wouldn't lead you to good nor make you feel prime as you wanted it to be. Want to help? How about you bother to slowly accept for who they wanted to. That isn't that hard, is it? The problem is discrimination, prejudices, and ignorance has taken place. When people are distraught, that’s when they start discriminating and competing between themselves. You may be thinkin, dealing with all of these is just that simple. Yet imagine if you were in their part, can you live with all of that?

        No matter how we turned things, there will always be that kind of individuals out there. Gay, bi, lesbian and trans. How against you are to it, they will still live and will always be.